They learn to associate sexuality with guilt because of messages about the sexual behavior from the abuser or others who learned about the abuse. |
So, it doesn't excuse the behavior but I think it explains the atmosphere that gives rise to the aberrant behavior. |
But I have never met someone who actually confronts people for their abhorrent behavior after the workplace bullying is over. |
I don't think it's a sickness that causes somebody to engage in aberrant behavior. |
The breeding behavior of wandering albatrosses is much like that of the frigatebirds I have studied, but it is anomalous among birds in general. |
I'm waffling here, unwilling to say we were snobby or we were justified in our behavior, but I can see it from both sides. |